Techniques for managing and reducing sibling rivalry: A comprehensive review

Abstract

Background: Sibling rivalry is a widespread and complex phenomenon that can negatively impact children's emotional development, familial harmony, and long-term sibling relationships. While some rivalry can contribute to growth and resilience, chronic conflict often requires intervention. This review aims to synthesize existing literature and practical approaches for managing and reducing sibling rivalry. Objective: A qualitative review methodology was employed, analyzing findings from child development research, parenting psychology, and family therapy literature. Techniques were categorized into key themes based on their recurrence in peer-reviewed sources, parenting guides, and expert recommendations. Methods: This review utilized a qualitative approach to synthesize a broad spectrum of literature and expert perspectives on sibling rivalry. Instead of conducting new empirical research, it focused on analyzing and integrating findings from existing studies, professional guidelines, and established parenting frameworks. The goal was to identify effective strategies for managing and reducing sibling conflict. Result: Seven primary strategies emerged as effective in managing sibling rivalry: promoting individual identity, balancing fairness over equality, teaching conflict resolution skills, providing quality time and positive attention, setting clear boundaries and rules, encouraging parental self-regulation, and utilizing professional interventions when necessary.